This is a personal sex question details after the link? Warning to Minors....??
Question: Alright, my husband and I have sex a lot and we occasionally delve into back door action sometimes not all the time. Naturally it hurts with the initial penetration but after it gets worked in it feels fine.
Now, last week was the last time we used that position and it has given me some side affects and it is kinda worrying me....
Every time I go to the bathroom to deuce, I see blood in the toilet when I flush and this has been happening to me since last thursday. What is going on?
Thanks in Advance <33
Answers: No judgement here about the anal sex...
Bleeding for a few days has never happened to me, but it happened to a good friend of mine. It could be an anal fissure. It will probably heal itself. She was very uncomfortable and bleeding for a few weeks, but now she's fine.
Here's a reference talking about anal fissure and that it usually heals on its own: http://www.doctorslounge.com/surgery/dis...
And here's another reference that 90% of anal fissures heal on their own: http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/anal-fi...
It's a good idea to keep your stool as soft as possible. Eat plenty of soluable fiber (oatmeal is a good source). You can even take metamucil, which is just psyllium fiber and makes your stool very soft. I'd start with small doses if you take it.
when delving into that sort of sexual interaction it is smart to be very clean and not do it to often, let it be the thing you do once in a while, cuz its not good for you to be getting an enema everyother day, or 3 days a week, or anything like that...you should do back door action, once in a blue moon, not often, unless your a porn star...at least your getting paid..but darling if you care for your health stop doing it so much...the blood, of course is not good..and you should go see your doctor, im sure your fine, but i just think you've been doing it alittle to much and your body is letting you know that..
i would give a doctor a call and just ask. maybe he was more rough or not enough lube. good luck!
Should probably go see a doctor. The lining could have been damaged. Any number of things could have gone wrong. There are some woman who have had to have their back door replaced with a bag and a diaper because the colon was ruptured during that kind of intercourse.
The skin in the back door is a lot more sensitive. He's tearing the skin inside. Use more lube. If it comes out black, be worried. If it's just a small amount of bright red, then you are okay. You may want to ease up on the back door action for a while, at least until your deuces start coming up aces.
you might consult your doctor or a proffesional becuase
most of women get cervical cancer over several months
of sex health of women suffer most of it.
who knows?
~toodles
You have probably ruptured the lining between your parts (if you know what I mean) don't worry it will usually heal itself. If it still keeps happening thou you had better call your DR.
The only other thing I recomend is make sure he cleans his dick before he puts it in yor puss
my only thought would be that was he rougher than usual? you may have torn some tissue that could heal on it's own but given the nature of the area, i wouldn't wait to long if it continues. hope it gets better. i've never had that side effect, but we only end up there about once a year. good luck
Well, I personally prefer not to use that method for stimulation or gratification, but different strokes for different folks - it is definitely not normal to have bleeding from the anus, this should be checked out by a Medical Practitioner or you could perhaps get your partner to check - there might just be a fissure (slight tearing between the buttock cheeks). If you like to use this method, please be careful and don't be too vigorous next time - it causes unecessary worries.
Stop having anal sex! He could be putting tears into your colon. You might wanna get that checked out.
Extremely dangerous practice,you probably got a tear and you can get the worst infection ever.Highly recommend you close the back door if you value your health.
Carla, hold up a second.
Two issues here. First, it doesn't have to hurt, not at first, not at all. You need substantially more foreplay at the site, more lube, and maybe a glass of wine or other inducement to relax.
It's possible that there's a small tear in the anal or rectal lining. These usually heal up okay. However, they don't keep bleeding like this. What does keep on bleeding every time you push is internal hemorrhoids, which were probably rubbed, irritated, or injured during your last session.
They often respond to an over the counter medication like Preparation H or Anusol. You need to make sure what exits you there is soft and involves no straining. Mucho fiber, lots of water, even an over the counter stool softener if necessary.
Don't play near the back door until there's been no bleeding for 24 hours. Insist on much slower, more gradual penetration.
And don't listen to the bozos who presume to judge what a married woman and her husband do in private.
Now, last week was the last time we used that position and it has given me some side affects and it is kinda worrying me....
Every time I go to the bathroom to deuce, I see blood in the toilet when I flush and this has been happening to me since last thursday. What is going on?
Thanks in Advance <33
Answers: No judgement here about the anal sex...
Bleeding for a few days has never happened to me, but it happened to a good friend of mine. It could be an anal fissure. It will probably heal itself. She was very uncomfortable and bleeding for a few weeks, but now she's fine.
Here's a reference talking about anal fissure and that it usually heals on its own: http://www.doctorslounge.com/surgery/dis...
And here's another reference that 90% of anal fissures heal on their own: http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/anal-fi...
It's a good idea to keep your stool as soft as possible. Eat plenty of soluable fiber (oatmeal is a good source). You can even take metamucil, which is just psyllium fiber and makes your stool very soft. I'd start with small doses if you take it.
when delving into that sort of sexual interaction it is smart to be very clean and not do it to often, let it be the thing you do once in a while, cuz its not good for you to be getting an enema everyother day, or 3 days a week, or anything like that...you should do back door action, once in a blue moon, not often, unless your a porn star...at least your getting paid..but darling if you care for your health stop doing it so much...the blood, of course is not good..and you should go see your doctor, im sure your fine, but i just think you've been doing it alittle to much and your body is letting you know that..
i would give a doctor a call and just ask. maybe he was more rough or not enough lube. good luck!
Should probably go see a doctor. The lining could have been damaged. Any number of things could have gone wrong. There are some woman who have had to have their back door replaced with a bag and a diaper because the colon was ruptured during that kind of intercourse.
The skin in the back door is a lot more sensitive. He's tearing the skin inside. Use more lube. If it comes out black, be worried. If it's just a small amount of bright red, then you are okay. You may want to ease up on the back door action for a while, at least until your deuces start coming up aces.
you might consult your doctor or a proffesional becuase
most of women get cervical cancer over several months
of sex health of women suffer most of it.
who knows?
~toodles
You have probably ruptured the lining between your parts (if you know what I mean) don't worry it will usually heal itself. If it still keeps happening thou you had better call your DR.
The only other thing I recomend is make sure he cleans his dick before he puts it in yor puss
my only thought would be that was he rougher than usual? you may have torn some tissue that could heal on it's own but given the nature of the area, i wouldn't wait to long if it continues. hope it gets better. i've never had that side effect, but we only end up there about once a year. good luck
Well, I personally prefer not to use that method for stimulation or gratification, but different strokes for different folks - it is definitely not normal to have bleeding from the anus, this should be checked out by a Medical Practitioner or you could perhaps get your partner to check - there might just be a fissure (slight tearing between the buttock cheeks). If you like to use this method, please be careful and don't be too vigorous next time - it causes unecessary worries.
Stop having anal sex! He could be putting tears into your colon. You might wanna get that checked out.
Extremely dangerous practice,you probably got a tear and you can get the worst infection ever.Highly recommend you close the back door if you value your health.
Carla, hold up a second.
Two issues here. First, it doesn't have to hurt, not at first, not at all. You need substantially more foreplay at the site, more lube, and maybe a glass of wine or other inducement to relax.
It's possible that there's a small tear in the anal or rectal lining. These usually heal up okay. However, they don't keep bleeding like this. What does keep on bleeding every time you push is internal hemorrhoids, which were probably rubbed, irritated, or injured during your last session.
They often respond to an over the counter medication like Preparation H or Anusol. You need to make sure what exits you there is soft and involves no straining. Mucho fiber, lots of water, even an over the counter stool softener if necessary.
Don't play near the back door until there's been no bleeding for 24 hours. Insist on much slower, more gradual penetration.
And don't listen to the bozos who presume to judge what a married woman and her husband do in private.
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