I never orgasim!??
Question: I have never had an orgasim from intercourse! I've been sexually active for 10 years, not too many partners, several long-term relationships. All different shapes and sizes...no orgasim. Any suggestions other than oral or finger play?
Answers: Foreplay is important is setting the mood. Find someone who loves you and you love that makes a big difference.
a rabbit vibrator.
if you can do it to yourself then do the same thing while having sex or have your partner do it. it's not unusual for women to not be able to without.
A lot of women don't orgasm from sexual intercourse. You should try doing some different positions. I know that when I do different positions, I find some that stimulate me more, and they make me orgasm, when other positions don't. Sometimes I don't orgasm while in missionary, but I always do when my boyfriend and I do doggy style. It all depends on how he is entering you and if he is hitting your g-spot. Also, have him play with your clit while you are having sexual intercourse, or you can, it helps you orgasm :) Goodluck.
I'm with you! I have only had orgasms from oral sex or clitoral stimulation and I have been sexually active for 10 years now. I guess some of us girls are just like that!
you not unlike other women...most cannot have an orgasm form vaginal sex...they must use either their fingers or a vibe on their clit when being penetrated and made love to... it may be a turn on to some guys if you started to touch yourself there ...so hey go for it and i bet if you are relaxed enough and with the right partner i think you might surprise yourself and have the big O good luck
When I first started having sex I had the same problem, but now I orgasm every time pretty quickly...
What works for me is to rub my clitoris during intercourse and contract my vaginal muscles rhythmically... Contracting the muscles of the vagina can strengthen and tighten the vagina and can make sex more pleasurable for you and your partner....(and it helps me orgasm!).
You also have to have the right mindset...you have to learn to focus on the pleasure....let go of stress and worries from the day. Find one thing that turns you on and focus on it...don't let your mind wander. I usually pretend I'm acting out a fantasy and watch that fantasy in my mind.
Sometimes varying the speed of sex or the position can help too. Try another position if you feel like sex is numb or have him slow down a little and push deeper.
Whatever you do, try not to stress during sex about not having an orgasm...then you end up thinking about that instead of enjoying sex...just let go and enjoy it!
If you still find yourself orgasmless you may want to discuss it with your gyn., but I hope you are able to enjoy orgasms soon!
Good luck!
Oral and finger play is big! Most women never orgasm from vaginal stimulation, only from clitoral stimulation. Try to intergrate clitoral stimulation in foreplay or during intercourse. Have the guy do it for you or do it yourself since you know what you enjoy. Guys also find this a huge turn on when a woman knows her own body.
As for other techniques, I would try changing the scenery. Maybe go for sex outside, in a car, play out a fantasy, or maybe something naughty.
If you search a bit on the internet there are sexual theropist and physiologist that may be a little pricy but may focus all the research that is out there onto you.
Sadly, a large number of women do not get orgasms from intercourse alone. Your best bet is to try some sort of clitoral stimulation in addition to intercourse.
relax
You're not alone. Read the following as it may help.
Note: This is a condition most often associated with women.
Why do some women have difficulty in achieving orgasm?
There are a number of reasons why a woman may not be able to achieve orgasm, some physical others psychological.
Possible physical issues:
inadequate stimulation
medication treating another illness
injury or accident which affects genital receptiveness
conditions which interrupt nerve supply to the genitals
Possible psychological issues:
stress or anxiety
relationship problems
depression
cultural or religious guilt associated with sex
I'd suggest talking to a doctor whom you trust very much and find out if the problem is physical and/or psychological.
Until you find out which itis, you might find it impossible to mive ahead.
Hope this helps somewhat.
Answers: Foreplay is important is setting the mood. Find someone who loves you and you love that makes a big difference.
a rabbit vibrator.
if you can do it to yourself then do the same thing while having sex or have your partner do it. it's not unusual for women to not be able to without.
A lot of women don't orgasm from sexual intercourse. You should try doing some different positions. I know that when I do different positions, I find some that stimulate me more, and they make me orgasm, when other positions don't. Sometimes I don't orgasm while in missionary, but I always do when my boyfriend and I do doggy style. It all depends on how he is entering you and if he is hitting your g-spot. Also, have him play with your clit while you are having sexual intercourse, or you can, it helps you orgasm :) Goodluck.
I'm with you! I have only had orgasms from oral sex or clitoral stimulation and I have been sexually active for 10 years now. I guess some of us girls are just like that!
you not unlike other women...most cannot have an orgasm form vaginal sex...they must use either their fingers or a vibe on their clit when being penetrated and made love to... it may be a turn on to some guys if you started to touch yourself there ...so hey go for it and i bet if you are relaxed enough and with the right partner i think you might surprise yourself and have the big O good luck
When I first started having sex I had the same problem, but now I orgasm every time pretty quickly...
What works for me is to rub my clitoris during intercourse and contract my vaginal muscles rhythmically... Contracting the muscles of the vagina can strengthen and tighten the vagina and can make sex more pleasurable for you and your partner....(and it helps me orgasm!).
You also have to have the right mindset...you have to learn to focus on the pleasure....let go of stress and worries from the day. Find one thing that turns you on and focus on it...don't let your mind wander. I usually pretend I'm acting out a fantasy and watch that fantasy in my mind.
Sometimes varying the speed of sex or the position can help too. Try another position if you feel like sex is numb or have him slow down a little and push deeper.
Whatever you do, try not to stress during sex about not having an orgasm...then you end up thinking about that instead of enjoying sex...just let go and enjoy it!
If you still find yourself orgasmless you may want to discuss it with your gyn., but I hope you are able to enjoy orgasms soon!
Good luck!
Oral and finger play is big! Most women never orgasm from vaginal stimulation, only from clitoral stimulation. Try to intergrate clitoral stimulation in foreplay or during intercourse. Have the guy do it for you or do it yourself since you know what you enjoy. Guys also find this a huge turn on when a woman knows her own body.
As for other techniques, I would try changing the scenery. Maybe go for sex outside, in a car, play out a fantasy, or maybe something naughty.
If you search a bit on the internet there are sexual theropist and physiologist that may be a little pricy but may focus all the research that is out there onto you.
Sadly, a large number of women do not get orgasms from intercourse alone. Your best bet is to try some sort of clitoral stimulation in addition to intercourse.
relax
You're not alone. Read the following as it may help.
Note: This is a condition most often associated with women.
Why do some women have difficulty in achieving orgasm?
There are a number of reasons why a woman may not be able to achieve orgasm, some physical others psychological.
Possible physical issues:
inadequate stimulation
medication treating another illness
injury or accident which affects genital receptiveness
conditions which interrupt nerve supply to the genitals
Possible psychological issues:
stress or anxiety
relationship problems
depression
cultural or religious guilt associated with sex
I'd suggest talking to a doctor whom you trust very much and find out if the problem is physical and/or psychological.
Until you find out which itis, you might find it impossible to mive ahead.
Hope this helps somewhat.
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