What should I do? Abusive relationship.??
Question: I need help if anyone can tell we what to do> I am 23. Living with my boyfriend 2000miles away from anyone I know. He has done everything in his power to hurt me lately. After six years two months ago is the first time he has hit me and threw my things out. I don't know where to go. Who can help me or what to do. Tonight is the last draw I can not let him hit me again. I can't tell my family I am soo embrassed. They will only make me feel worst.Is there any battered woman's shelters or conselors I can talk to? Please help. What can I do? I live in Orlando fl. PLEASE No rude replies, I don't need worst.
Answers: Move to SD you can be my roomie for real No not looking for a relationship you can hide out for a while probably not much fun but wont be in an abusive enviorment
call your local police in your state and let them know you are in serious trouble and ask for a shelter near you and dont go back home it will not get better,he will not change and you dont need that in your life,you are better than that and deserve better in the long run. no matter what your boyfriend tells you, he does not love you,he is not sorry, and it will happen again,only much serious he is just trying to get you back so he can have control of you and hit you again good luck to you
yes go to a shelter ASAP..This is a serious issue and if you do not get out it can get worse
I think you should have called 911 when he hit you the first time and had his sorry butt thrown into jail.. now he thinks that you will put up with it. Your family may not be as bad as you fear, but if you really can't go to them call the local police station and they will get you in contact with a shelter somewhere. I hope you don't have kids with this moron and let them be witness to dad's behavior and moms tolerance of it thus far....
Try the Florida hotline for abused women and children. (239) 775-1101 or http://www.naplesshelter.org/english/hel...
ALSO there is a place called harbor house in Orlando. 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TDD) , 1(800)500-1119 (FL)
http://www.harborhouseoccadv.com/
get out now before it escalates and go to the police, local church or shelter...things can be replaced...you cannot
Try this link: http://www.harborhouseoccadv.com/default...
Please, please do it right away. You must get away from him as quickly as possible! Nothing good can come from this. Don't look back, don't suffer any regrets. Just run away as fast as you can. You might also want to contact the police and have him arrested. Of course, the best thing might be to get away and never, ever look back. DO IT TONIGHT!!!
Go to a church if you can't find a shelter... Get far, far away... Don't stay in the same city...
Go to the police and ask them what social services are available, and the hospitals - same thing - there is help there somewhere.
As the answers above state, get out first, ask questions later...
Get OUT!! The police station can tell you where to go or even the emergency room. It will be hard but you have to do it for YOURSELF!! You are a better person than that GOD didn't put us here to hurt.........
Well, all you have to do is look up the city mission.... then call them, and tell them what is going on, and they can get you help.... they can get you connected with the womens shelter. Don't wait till you change your mind... trust me i know. RIGHT NOW pick up the phone and call information and get the number. They have programs and you will get soooo much help, you don't have to worry. Don't waste your life on an asshole, there are men out there that would treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Good luck , and hold your head up.
Get out ASAP! It doesn't matter if your family makes you feel worse! Just GET OUT! Feeling bad is worse then getting beat! If you are ever alone, call the police! They deal with those things all the time! Then, LEAVE! Get out! Stay at a hotel a street corner a bus. Anything! Just get out! NOW!
Get out.
Bus tickets home are cheap. There are shelters in your area, but w/out info I can't give them to you. Ask the police. Get a restraining order & HIDE.
Embarassment is nothing compared w/ what could happen. My mother stayed w/ my father & ended up dying because of a beating she took from him.
RUN as fast as you can get to a shelter, don't bother with phone books or numbers, get out while you are still breathing. a thousand miles is no excuse. call police, a church, or have one of these phone for you, there are better places to be, don't stay move now. don't go to the places he will be or will look for you. move to Texas where you will never be embarresed :)
Look in your yellow pages for women's shelter, shelter, battered and abused women or call none emregency police line and ask for information on women's shelter. And a word of advice, make sure this is what you want to do. If you go to a shelter and he finds out and you go back to him. He could hurt serverely. Please make sure this is what you want and don't be afraid to get the police involved at least for a restaining order
Spouse Abuse, Inc.
P.O. Box 680748
Orlando FL 32868
Business #: 407-886-2244
Hotline/Crisis: 407-886-2856
Women's Residential & Counseling Center
Orlando FL 32801
Business #: 407-425-2502
Hotline/Crisis: 407-425-2502
Ive been in that situation before. Because of his abuse, you have learned to hate yourself (obviously something because you've stayed with him) You say you cant tell your family because your embarrased and thats why I say that. Call them. Tell them. Believe it or not your family loves you. They will help you and they wont judge you and you have nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about except for not calling them sooner.
Get out of this relationship...
You NEED to tell your family... You may be embarrassed, but imagine how sorry you'll be if you really get hurt...
Talk to somebody!
Go to a church, or homeless shelter, or hospital...They CAN help you there...
1-800-799-7233...call for information it's a hotline for battered and abused women. Be strong.
If you call your local ER, or go to the ER, they will have the number for a secret women's shelter in your area. These numbers and addresses aren't usually in phone books, because they like to keep the location secret to prevent the abuser from finding you.
Don't write any of this information down, and make sure he can't find this question on the computer. The abuse will get worse if he knows you've talking to anyone about it, and are thinking of running.
there are women shelters that can put u up for awhile, and some of them wont give any info about you staying there.
you need to get out of the relationship.... it could become way worse.
Embarrassing or not, go back to your family. I'm sure they are 2000 miles away worrying about you. If you show up on the front step with your stuff, I'm sure they'll let you in and never give you the I told you so that you fear. You were 17 when you got with this guy...everyone thinks they can make it on their own at that age. Your family will not begrudge you for being young. They will be pissed when they have to claim your body 2000 miles from home to bring you home and bury you.
Tell your parents. If they are decent folks, they will come to your aid.
Call the cops and get HIM out of the house
Answers: Move to SD you can be my roomie for real No not looking for a relationship you can hide out for a while probably not much fun but wont be in an abusive enviorment
call your local police in your state and let them know you are in serious trouble and ask for a shelter near you and dont go back home it will not get better,he will not change and you dont need that in your life,you are better than that and deserve better in the long run. no matter what your boyfriend tells you, he does not love you,he is not sorry, and it will happen again,only much serious he is just trying to get you back so he can have control of you and hit you again good luck to you
yes go to a shelter ASAP..This is a serious issue and if you do not get out it can get worse
I think you should have called 911 when he hit you the first time and had his sorry butt thrown into jail.. now he thinks that you will put up with it. Your family may not be as bad as you fear, but if you really can't go to them call the local police station and they will get you in contact with a shelter somewhere. I hope you don't have kids with this moron and let them be witness to dad's behavior and moms tolerance of it thus far....
Try the Florida hotline for abused women and children. (239) 775-1101 or http://www.naplesshelter.org/english/hel...
ALSO there is a place called harbor house in Orlando. 24-Hour Crisis Hotline (407) 886-2856 (TDD) , 1(800)500-1119 (FL)
http://www.harborhouseoccadv.com/
get out now before it escalates and go to the police, local church or shelter...things can be replaced...you cannot
Try this link: http://www.harborhouseoccadv.com/default...
Please, please do it right away. You must get away from him as quickly as possible! Nothing good can come from this. Don't look back, don't suffer any regrets. Just run away as fast as you can. You might also want to contact the police and have him arrested. Of course, the best thing might be to get away and never, ever look back. DO IT TONIGHT!!!
Go to a church if you can't find a shelter... Get far, far away... Don't stay in the same city...
Go to the police and ask them what social services are available, and the hospitals - same thing - there is help there somewhere.
As the answers above state, get out first, ask questions later...
Get OUT!! The police station can tell you where to go or even the emergency room. It will be hard but you have to do it for YOURSELF!! You are a better person than that GOD didn't put us here to hurt.........
Well, all you have to do is look up the city mission.... then call them, and tell them what is going on, and they can get you help.... they can get you connected with the womens shelter. Don't wait till you change your mind... trust me i know. RIGHT NOW pick up the phone and call information and get the number. They have programs and you will get soooo much help, you don't have to worry. Don't waste your life on an asshole, there are men out there that would treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Good luck , and hold your head up.
Get out ASAP! It doesn't matter if your family makes you feel worse! Just GET OUT! Feeling bad is worse then getting beat! If you are ever alone, call the police! They deal with those things all the time! Then, LEAVE! Get out! Stay at a hotel a street corner a bus. Anything! Just get out! NOW!
Get out.
Bus tickets home are cheap. There are shelters in your area, but w/out info I can't give them to you. Ask the police. Get a restraining order & HIDE.
Embarassment is nothing compared w/ what could happen. My mother stayed w/ my father & ended up dying because of a beating she took from him.
RUN as fast as you can get to a shelter, don't bother with phone books or numbers, get out while you are still breathing. a thousand miles is no excuse. call police, a church, or have one of these phone for you, there are better places to be, don't stay move now. don't go to the places he will be or will look for you. move to Texas where you will never be embarresed :)
Look in your yellow pages for women's shelter, shelter, battered and abused women or call none emregency police line and ask for information on women's shelter. And a word of advice, make sure this is what you want to do. If you go to a shelter and he finds out and you go back to him. He could hurt serverely. Please make sure this is what you want and don't be afraid to get the police involved at least for a restaining order
Spouse Abuse, Inc.
P.O. Box 680748
Orlando FL 32868
Business #: 407-886-2244
Hotline/Crisis: 407-886-2856
Women's Residential & Counseling Center
Orlando FL 32801
Business #: 407-425-2502
Hotline/Crisis: 407-425-2502
Ive been in that situation before. Because of his abuse, you have learned to hate yourself (obviously something because you've stayed with him) You say you cant tell your family because your embarrased and thats why I say that. Call them. Tell them. Believe it or not your family loves you. They will help you and they wont judge you and you have nothing to be ashamed or embarrassed about except for not calling them sooner.
Get out of this relationship...
You NEED to tell your family... You may be embarrassed, but imagine how sorry you'll be if you really get hurt...
Talk to somebody!
Go to a church, or homeless shelter, or hospital...They CAN help you there...
1-800-799-7233...call for information it's a hotline for battered and abused women. Be strong.
If you call your local ER, or go to the ER, they will have the number for a secret women's shelter in your area. These numbers and addresses aren't usually in phone books, because they like to keep the location secret to prevent the abuser from finding you.
Don't write any of this information down, and make sure he can't find this question on the computer. The abuse will get worse if he knows you've talking to anyone about it, and are thinking of running.
there are women shelters that can put u up for awhile, and some of them wont give any info about you staying there.
you need to get out of the relationship.... it could become way worse.
Embarrassing or not, go back to your family. I'm sure they are 2000 miles away worrying about you. If you show up on the front step with your stuff, I'm sure they'll let you in and never give you the I told you so that you fear. You were 17 when you got with this guy...everyone thinks they can make it on their own at that age. Your family will not begrudge you for being young. They will be pissed when they have to claim your body 2000 miles from home to bring you home and bury you.
Tell your parents. If they are decent folks, they will come to your aid.
Call the cops and get HIM out of the house
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