My bf can't give me orgasms? (guys please)??
Question: And it's not that i can't get them, I've had plenty from other guys just from sexual intercourse. I don't fake it either, and I try to give him tips to improve but it doesn't seem to be working.... Any advice from guys out there on how they give their partners orgasms? Our relationships great in every other way and I don't want something like this to ruin it. Thanks
Answers: you have to guide him if he's not on the right road. Incorporate step by step directions with a hint of dirty talk and he'll be none-the-wiser :) .....good luck
Can you give one to yourself or does it always take someone else? Find out, experiment, with what pleases you by yourself and then just tell him what you do to please yourself and go from there... I'm a guy, and a guy can please himself without even thinking about it, but with the women in my life, I found it best to ask them how they pleased themselves (and after the awkward silence passes) and that seemed to make things work much better. I found that every woman I have known have all had the same basic equipment, but all were and have been, quite different in exactly how that equipment is used. What is good for the goose is not always good for the gander regardless of what people say. My Lady friend (sitting next to me at the moment) says, take the initiative and try woman on top and work on pleasing yourself more than your boyfriend. She says, that was the way she found out she could even HAVE an orgasm.
HI, i will give you what came to my mind as the most logical response.
there is 2 common factors for the lack of orgasm the physical and the psychological.
taking away the physical as you have experienced them before.
we go to the Psychological one.
i suggest you do a basic trouble shooting.
recreate circumstances that made the orgasms happened, positions, places and why not even Costumes or some Adrenaline driven situations.
2.try to give your self an orgasm... look for your sensitive areas
give him touching tips. it can be actually fun.
I think you will have to take the initiative and ask him to 'try something new' get a book of Kamasutra or tantra and see if there is something both of you like.
I am sure he will be happy if you get satisfied too.
Have Fun,
Vinesh
Answers: you have to guide him if he's not on the right road. Incorporate step by step directions with a hint of dirty talk and he'll be none-the-wiser :) .....good luck
Can you give one to yourself or does it always take someone else? Find out, experiment, with what pleases you by yourself and then just tell him what you do to please yourself and go from there... I'm a guy, and a guy can please himself without even thinking about it, but with the women in my life, I found it best to ask them how they pleased themselves (and after the awkward silence passes) and that seemed to make things work much better. I found that every woman I have known have all had the same basic equipment, but all were and have been, quite different in exactly how that equipment is used. What is good for the goose is not always good for the gander regardless of what people say. My Lady friend (sitting next to me at the moment) says, take the initiative and try woman on top and work on pleasing yourself more than your boyfriend. She says, that was the way she found out she could even HAVE an orgasm.
HI, i will give you what came to my mind as the most logical response.
there is 2 common factors for the lack of orgasm the physical and the psychological.
taking away the physical as you have experienced them before.
we go to the Psychological one.
i suggest you do a basic trouble shooting.
recreate circumstances that made the orgasms happened, positions, places and why not even Costumes or some Adrenaline driven situations.
2.try to give your self an orgasm... look for your sensitive areas
give him touching tips. it can be actually fun.
I think you will have to take the initiative and ask him to 'try something new' get a book of Kamasutra or tantra and see if there is something both of you like.
I am sure he will be happy if you get satisfied too.
Have Fun,
Vinesh
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