Guys: I think this guy likes me but I don't like him back??
Question: He keeps looking at me at class. At I.C.T he was stuck on what to do he was like.. I...i...i need help... i sat in opposite him at lunch he kind of nervous and tried to look away...He tries to talk to me.. Btw hes really shy. But... I don't really like him back and im scared?
Answers: There's no reason to be scared of him unless he's prone to be violent. A lot of young boys are shy around girls they like, especially if they didn't grow up around girls at all.
The worst thing you can do is to ignore him.... he won't know to stop if you do that.
Try just striking up a conversation with him. Try to be nice about it... tell him that you appreciate the attention he gives you, but you aren't interested in a relationship with him.... that he's not your type. Let him down gently and you'll never have to worry about him.
I take this from personal experience.... I was one of those shy boys, and I had a couple crushes, but not enough nerve to tell the girls. Heck, I remember one time I was sitting near my crush and I had trouble even looking at her, too. I was never violent by any means, and I never would have done anything to emotionally or physically hurt any of the girls I liked..... but I was too nervous to talk to them.
For one of my biggest crushes, she was also shy and couldn't talk to me, so she ignored me. I didn't know if she liked me or not, so I kept looking and hoping she'd talk to me. If she had told me early on that she was flattered but I wasn't her type..... yeah, it would have hurt a bit, but I would have gotten over it and left her alone. Believe me, it hurt more after a couple years worth of idealizing her, and it made for more uncomfortable situations for both of us because we were both too shy to talk when we were forced to be together the few times that it happened.
tell him, crush his dreams, make him loose hope in god
Just try to ignore him . . . . but not rudely. If he does try to strike up a conversation or have the courage to ask you out, either politely tell him that you're flattered but not interested or tell him that you already have a boyfriend (whether you have one or not). If you're polite in the way you respond to him and don't give him any reason to think you're interested in him, then you have nothing to worry about.
tell him if he doesn't stop looking at you then you are going to get your big brother to kick his a s s! Even if you don't have a big brother he doesn't have to know that.
talk to him
Answers: There's no reason to be scared of him unless he's prone to be violent. A lot of young boys are shy around girls they like, especially if they didn't grow up around girls at all.
The worst thing you can do is to ignore him.... he won't know to stop if you do that.
Try just striking up a conversation with him. Try to be nice about it... tell him that you appreciate the attention he gives you, but you aren't interested in a relationship with him.... that he's not your type. Let him down gently and you'll never have to worry about him.
I take this from personal experience.... I was one of those shy boys, and I had a couple crushes, but not enough nerve to tell the girls. Heck, I remember one time I was sitting near my crush and I had trouble even looking at her, too. I was never violent by any means, and I never would have done anything to emotionally or physically hurt any of the girls I liked..... but I was too nervous to talk to them.
For one of my biggest crushes, she was also shy and couldn't talk to me, so she ignored me. I didn't know if she liked me or not, so I kept looking and hoping she'd talk to me. If she had told me early on that she was flattered but I wasn't her type..... yeah, it would have hurt a bit, but I would have gotten over it and left her alone. Believe me, it hurt more after a couple years worth of idealizing her, and it made for more uncomfortable situations for both of us because we were both too shy to talk when we were forced to be together the few times that it happened.
tell him, crush his dreams, make him loose hope in god
Just try to ignore him . . . . but not rudely. If he does try to strike up a conversation or have the courage to ask you out, either politely tell him that you're flattered but not interested or tell him that you already have a boyfriend (whether you have one or not). If you're polite in the way you respond to him and don't give him any reason to think you're interested in him, then you have nothing to worry about.
tell him if he doesn't stop looking at you then you are going to get your big brother to kick his a s s! Even if you don't have a big brother he doesn't have to know that.
talk to him
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